The Carter's

No more Chip....

2010-09-11T12:04:00.000-07:00

Maddux has been through a lot in his little lifetime, & his most recent accomplishment has been fixing his teeth. Due to the thyroid disease it has done some damage to his teeth. He gets cavities a lot faster than usual. He had gotten a chip in his tooth a yr back and we tried getting it fixed but the dentist we saw couldn't help us. So we switched dentists and since then have had excellent service from them & been working towards fixing the problem. A few weeks back we were coming out of the pizza place and maddux got his foot caught in the rug and fell and hit his face right in the pavement. Poor guy. Well because of the already chipped tooth it cut his lip up pretty good and chipped his tooth even more. So when we saw the dentist we decided it was time to fix it for good. Maddy went it two days ago and had two crowns put on his two front teeth. Due to the problems he has he is most likely not going to lose his teeth for a few more yrs so there was no sense in waiting for his big teeth and we didnt want him going to school with chipped ones. He did so amazing in the dentist, it was his first time getting happy gas & shots to numb the area and the procedure only lasted an hr. He did awesome the whole time!!! I am so proud of how far he has come & how brave my little man is. He really is my hero.

His lip was really swollen still in these pics so no that its not I am going to post some better ones where you can see the teeth better!!

Where has time gone.. Summer picure overload!!!!

2010-07-30T15:20:00.000-07:00

My goodness it's been a long time since I have posted. Too long. I was doing my spring cleaning the other day, yes I said spring cleaning, lol and we are almost in Aug now but hey it's better late than never, and I thought to myself wow I haven't blogged in so long I think it's about time I updated it. Here at the Carter house things have been good. The weather has been kind enough for us to enjoy the outdoors and play outside most of our spare time and the kids have loved it! Sweet Maddux got a new bike from Dad so he's been scooting around on that, and beautiful Bella is obsessed with water! so we fill up the little pool and she loves being a little water log. This summer so far has been full of all kinds of fun stuff. It started off with lots of visits from family, Cylee, my gorgeous sister came and stayed with us finally!!! I am so thankful I have such an amazing sister to look up to! She is such a good example and I am so glad I got to spend time with her! Even though it was a short trip it was still wonderful to have her! Then we followed it by having Tilden's family come and stay for a few days too! It was so fun to have them come and hang out and the kids loved playing with Carlene's dog Clancy! Thanks again you guys for coming and seeing us!! Your trip was also short but we are thankful you came!! We then had the great opportunity of going and staying with my brother and Jared in Eugene, OR and my parents came and met us there. And their house was amazing!! It was so cozy and just gorgeous!! We had an amazing time. It was great to get out and get off the island since we have all been so cooped up with me not being able to drive still. So thanks again Jake & Jared for the great adventure!!
We also had another fun adventure and traveled to Mt. Baker and found us a camp spot for a few days up in the mountains. It was so beautiful and the weather was hot, we couldn't believe how much of a difference it was just being an hour away from the island and it was so much hotter!! So we sure had lots of fun playing in the lake. We sure miss that good ole lake swimming in Idaho so that was fun!!!
We had our 4th of July here on the Island on the beach. except this year we chose to watch it on a different side!! which was so much better, lol but either way it never fails the weather is always beautiful and super warm the week before and up to the day and the day of it is so cold its almost unbearable... so we watch the fireworks and then leave. But they always have the usual festivities and have the carnival with my favorite, caramel apples, cotten candy, corn dogs! and we rode a few rides with the kids. it was also another great time spending it with Tilden & the kids.
On the days that I am having a hard time with not being able to drive and stuck at home, I need to look back at my blog and remember all the good times & special moments. And especially my amazing family who have been there for me and made this summer such a great time!! I love all of you guys so much and am so thankful for all of you!! Thanks so much Tilden I love you for being so patient with me & working so hard to get your business going and make this summer special! We love you. And I have some pretty amazing kiddos!! They are too cute for words...man what I blessing I have with them. with every giggle & smile it melts my heart. I am going to try my best to keep up on the blog not just to update everyone but mostly for the record of my family and myself...... Now for some pics....

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Tulip Festival

2010-04-11T01:16:00.001-07:00

Here are just a few of the pics that I got today from the Tulip Festival. It goes on during all of April and there are just fields and fields of all different colors and daffodils. It was deffinelty great to finally get there. I have been talking about going now for 4 yrs and im kicking myself in the butt I didnt go sooner. But I am so glad I did...I hope you enjoy the pics....

there are so many good ones soi hope you enjoy them as much as i do.....hehe

Happy Bday Mom!!

2010-04-08T15:58:00.000-07:00

I know it was on the 5th but I wanted to still give a shout out to my mamma. You are such an inspiration of hope and love. I am so proud to be your daughter. thank you for all the fun times and being a great mother and a great grandmother to my kids. We all love you so........

Easter

2010-04-08T15:45:00.001-07:00

We had a great Easter and beautiful weather to hunt for eggs. I have more pics to come but this will do for now. Sorry I've been slacking on the blogging lately but alot has been going on that I will post about later... Hope everyone had a happy easter.

i really....

2009-11-25T15:42:00.000-08:00

I really need to keep up on this more. I just get so busy with everyday life that this gets put on the back burner.... but this is just a quick post to say things are great here and we are all getting ready for turkey dinner. We are so thankful that Tilden is home with us this year for the holidays, and for all our family....We love you all and miss you!!!!!
Here are a few pics of what has been happening around here since i last posted.
Such a handsome little guy. Maddux is growth hormones are going well and working. His birthday was sunday Nov. 22. He is now 5 and I can't believe it!!! He is such an amazing and smart little boy. We had a little bday bash here at our house and it was so fun to see how excited he was. My mom always made our bdays really special, we always got to pick out what we wanted for dinner and cake? I love that tradition so we started that this year with maddux. He is finally old enough to make those decisions and its amazing. We had pancakes and eggs and a special motorcycle cake that daddy made. He makes me smile everyday.... Love you boo boo
>eating pudding for the first time on her own.
they love reading especially together...
and playing where they shouldn't, like closets...bella climbed in the carseat stacked on top of a box...
My lil beauty
imagination.....

this is where she sits when i cook. throws everything out then gets in...
Maddux was sick so we didn't go for very long....but they were both so stinkin cute...
My little Ladybug....

Tilden's prize.....

2009-10-26T14:03:00.000-07:00

Tilden went to work today and showed the pictures to his buddies and realized I didn't put up a picture of the side shot of the deer to show how many points it is. so here it is babe. Im so proud of you!!!!! I have no worries that you can take care of us in need. I love you babe.

Our fun trip back to good ole Idaho......

2009-10-25T17:55:00.000-07:00

Great family picture taken by my mother. Thanks again mom for taking our new family pic.
We finally went home this time all together. Tilden hasn't been home in about 2 years so this trip was special. The big part of the trip was Tilden hunting. He has not gone since he joined the Navy. So he got all geared up for a day of hunting with his family and friends. It turned out great because he shot one!! Good Job babe.. It was a nice looking deer, and we have meat to take home.

Chance, Chad, and Tilden

We had a great time just hanging out with family and friends. I wish we would have had more time, 1 week is not enough. But we will take what we can get. We spent our days running back and forth visiting family. Tildens family had a get together and it was great for Tilden to get a chance to catch up and for us to just see the family. We spent a day with my brother at his and Jareds house and it was fun and relaxing. The kids loved it because they got to play with their fun dogs Yoda and Yuki. Little Yuki is a pup and loved playing around. she is so adorable. Jake had a pumpkin for Maddux and him to carve and Maddy loved it. He loves spending time with his Uncle Jake. Thanks again guys for having us.

My sister came from Utah with her adorable kiddos and it was such a great few days with her. Thanks Cy for making the trip for us. We love seeing you every chance we get. I got a kick outta watching her little girl Morgan and Bella play. Morgan loved taking off with her blankie and bella just chased her down til she got it. Morgan also started saying mine to bella. it was pretty hilarious. I am glad we got that chance to go out to eat and go do a bit of shopping, I sure miss hanging out with you cy....Love you guys...

We had a great time fishing on the boat with nana and papa, and feeding the horses out at grandma and grandpa carters, and going skating with my friends desirae and chase wren, and chance and tiff, and playing with my all the dogs, yoda and yuki, and clancy and taylor. we just want to say thanks to everyone who made our trip special. we love you all and cant wait to come back again. we miss you all...
Maddy and his best bud papa

4 Generations...

Bella loves soda...

love riding with papa on the 4wheeler
My good friend Desirae and Jagger. Im so glad we got to see you guys.
Bella and grandma carter feeding clancy
playing music with grandpa carter
maddy and daisy duke
maddy adores his nana
good looking guy trying to catch a fish
thanks mom for taking our pictures. I wish we would have had more time to get a few more great ones. Thanks for letting us come and visit. we love you guys..

cute little jagger

Bella's Bday September 25th

2009-10-25T17:24:00.000-07:00

Wow, how are little girl has grown. Time has gone by way to fast with this little girl. She is growing up to fast. It feels like just yest I had the little bug. She is so independent. She wants to do everything herself, her way. She is saying so many things...
-mamma
-dadda
-nana
-papa
-baba
-whats that...wastat
-mine
-so big..thats my favorite, she puts her hands up in the air and jibbers the sound of soooo biiig...its adorable.
Bella loves her big brother. She absolutely adores him. He gets the never ending kisses from sis. They play so well together. Im sure they are going to be close growing up. We had a small little get together for her bday and she got a few new outfits and some new toys. She loved being the center of attention thats for sure.

Happy Bday Sis!!!

2009-09-16T09:24:00.001-07:00

Happy Birthday Cylee!!! We love you lots and are super happy you are moving close to HOme so we can see you more and more......I have been blessed with such a great sister like you....You have been a great inspiration in my journey through life. I love you always sis!!!

and more pics.....

2009-09-13T15:01:00.000-07:00

These are a couple pics i forgot to put in at the first from the 4th of July parade. Bella loved all the floats and crazy sounds.
And of course Maddux is in his ready position to go get the candy!!!
Another one of Maddy's face paintings!! He is so silly.
When dad got home it was time to build a big new kennel for the dogs. But Bella couldn't be away from daddy for a minute so they built the kennel together.
Maddux and I helped a bit but mostly just played.
Salmon only run through the sound every other year and so it was a cool expierence to see them all jumping and swimmin on through. Tilden has been out there catching them right and left. This year they made history with a record breaking 5 million salmon passing through. I have more pics to come......
Bella liked the feel of the slimy fish.

Maddux has really gotten into getting his face painted so this time he wanted to be a bunny. the cutest bunny I have seen.
This was Bella's first time getting her face done but she did great and it turned out super cute.
Maddux had so much fun at the command VQ-1 Picnic, chasing bubbles.

Im so glad that you made it home safe to us. We missed you!!!!
Just me and my sweetest lil kiddos....

Tilden brought us all home nice silk outfits from Japan. They are super comfy and fun to wear, and the kids look so adorable in them... Thanks babe!!

more pics

2009-09-13T14:18:00.000-07:00

Waiting for T to get off the plane.....
First hugs......
First catch of 09!! Just a lil perch...
My lil portrait baby....
Maddux on an adventure this summer...He thinks he's Indy (Indiana Jones)
Bella's Bangs.....

Blue Angels...

2009-09-13T13:26:00.000-07:00

they were so excited for them to start. Ready for Take-Off

Blue Angels

long overdue update......

2009-09-12T15:29:00.000-07:00

So where do I even begin. LOL I have been out of the internet world for so long now its taken me a minute to get back into the swing of things. We didn't have the internet for a long time......But we are back in business.
The kids and I went to the beach for the fireworks this year and it was pretty fun. It was way warmer this year than any other year. Right there on the ocean gets pretty chilly. but it was fun. This summer was all about garage sales...lol we set one up almost every weekend and made some pretty good dough. and when we werent doing that we were fishing or swimming. The summer here is for only about 2 weeks so it was nice to get out and get some sun while it lasted. Tilden made it home the middle of August and we were so excited to see him. At last he's home for awhile. We also got to see the Blue Angels. They were awesome..Maddux loved them.
Maddux started his growth hormones about a week before Tilden got home and it went ok for the first couple of days but then he got scared of it and I couldn't do it alone and hold him down. Giving him this shot everday is the worst thing a mother has to do. To maddux he wonders why I am hurting him but in time he will understand I did it cuz I love him. Once Tilden was home and we got into a routine and the shots are now getting easier for him. Maddux is my brave lil hero. Even though he is only 4 I look up to him in so many ways. HE is so brave. And I must report that he is getting bigger!!!!!!! yay I have noticed all of his clothes gettin tighter. Which is amazing cuz we hardly have to buy him anything.... But I can't wait to take him shopping. Other than the shots Maddux is getting ready to go back to school. He can hardly wait. He misses all of his teachers and friends. He has also made a lil stash of cash this summer. He is all about making money and spending it on toys. lol but it is so cute to watch him when he gets to buy something that he worked for.
Now on to lil (not so lil) Bella, She is growing in the blink of an eye. ITs truely amazing to see how fast they grow. She started taking her first steps in July and full on started walking a few days after Tilden got home. Which was awesome for him because he has missed so much. She is such a climber... she climbs on anything and everything. And when she wants something she doesnt just want one she wants them all. so greedy...hahah but adorable. Her hair was getting so long that when she woke up or if I didnt put it up it was all crusted and snarly around her face. so I cut her some bangs. a few days before that I had my hair cut and colored...Im not sure if ill keep it blonde im alredy thinking of going back to brown. but we will see. anyway
bella is already saying plenty of words:
mamma
dadda
bobba
mine
uh ah
uh ha
no no
caca
and i swear she tries to say Dixie (the dog) but it comes out a bit jibbery..
so that my fast and furious update on our life and from here on out I will be posting regularly again. This whole playing catch up thing gets pretty confusing. especially if you have a million pictures to go through. well I have plenty of pics to post so I hope you enjoy lookin at my growing lil family.........
Maddux riding on the wiggles at our grage sale...Lil Bella

Ok well my computer is still not fully fixed so I am not able to upload most of the pics...So I will work on them more and get another post of pics up here in a few days.....

Happy Birthday Papa Randy..

2009-07-04T07:53:00.000-07:00

And HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!!!!!!!!! You know me I have been having an issue with getting things in the mail on time if I even get it in there at all. ha so I decided to give you a shout out on here to also document in our journal what a great dad you are. We hope you have a fun day spent doing things that you would love to do. You are such a special and great man. We wouldnt know where or what we would do without you. Maddy looks up to you and adores you so much, thanks for being such a great papa and hero to my lil guy. Thank you for being so wonderful. We love you so freakin much!!!!! XoXoXoXoXoXoXo

Also a little shout out to my hubby and all the people that served and protected our country. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!! And come home safe to us baby we miss you....... Happy Independence day....

HaPpY AnNiVeRsArY BaBy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2009-06-29T18:50:00.000-07:00

3 years strong.............
How sad this is the most recent pic I have of us....3/14/09
Right after you came home from the desert.
I need to do better at taking more pics of us. We dont even look
like this anymore.lol

But wow we have come a long way..I wish we were able to spend this happy memory together...But know I am thinking of you and love you always. I am so proud of what you are doing for us, and our country, you are a strong man........Come home safe!!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Family visits.....

2009-06-24T14:44:00.000-07:00

Jake and Jared, Thank you guys so much for coming to see us. We loved spending time with you....Please come back soon and lets do all the fun crap we didnt get a chance to do......LOve you guys and of course we miss you already..xoxo

Oh Jake we have some good memories together and it meant so much to me that you were able to come and visit and make more newer ones. I love you so much bro!!! And oh you are looking way good.........a few situps might get rid of that tire. lol im just jokein you look great. better than I have ever seen. I love you and cant wait to see you again....

we miss you guys already..... come back..... falling off mister pig.... around pike place market

being silly at imperial garden....
yay I lOvE sEaTtLe!!!!!

Mister Maddy was scared of the bee..........but was super cute...love you boo..

Tired from a long day of exploring.... So full of happyness. this is why i get up everday. to see my two smiling lil kiddos full of unconditional love. i love you lil ones...

Crazy beautiful little Bella.
I think miss Bellas favorite part of our trip was the fishys at the aqarium. in the pic where her nose is all curled up is her new face she has been doing. pretty hilarious...
We are going to be in trouble with this little girl. She is so pretty...She did pretty good those two days we were all over Seattle....
Not only is Benihanas my fav restaurant but Maddy loves it too. He loves wearing the chef hat of course and all the skills the chef has.
Oh Jake how time has changed. I am so thankful you got to come and visit me. I would have been super bummed if you didnt get a chance to see how beautiful this island is. So thanks. I miss you and I can't wait to see you sometime hopefully in the next couple months....
Cherie my love and I. Thanks again girl for going with me and being a huge help with the kiddos. I would have been a huge mess without you. plus it was super fun having you there with us. I am glad I got to show you around Seattle..........

Family Visits.....OH how I love them... My parents came up to visit us and to be with us for Maddux's MRI. Which went well and the tests came back negative for a tumor. WOOT WOOT!!!! I am so thrilled. There are still some other issues they are trying to resolve but the worst part is over. So yay. We couldn't be happier. It was so nice to have them be there for me. I think they saw how i struggle alone without my hubby. But it was great getting to spend some time with them. Right after they headed home my brother and his roommate Jared came to visit. They flew into Seattle and Cherie (my friend) and I went to meet them there. We stayed downtown Seattle which was so much fun. I have lived here for 3 years and have done all the fun stuff there is there but I havent actually stayed in the city. So we had a blast going to the Space needle, and going on a cruise, and just walking and exploring pike place. And of course we had to eat at my fav Beni Hanas. It was so special to me that my brother made it up here finally. I miss you bro!!! Thanks for coming and we hope to have you both back soon.

The last few weeks have flown by for me. I have been so super busy its been kinda nice. It makes the time pass a little faster til I get to see Tilden again. Tilden is doing the best he can. He, of course would rather be home now with his family and helping me out. we miss you like crazy and cant wait to see you walk through those doors. We love you babe hang in there... Right now we are getting ready to start growth hormone therapy for maddux and keep on the thyroid medicine. and in the meantime try and get Tilden home. I need him now more than ever. And our sweet little Bella girl. She is growing way to fast. Almost walking she is on the verge. She is holding on and then letting go in between the couch and coffee table. And oh man is she an eater. My family expierenced it first hand how much this little munchkin eats. and if I can't get it to her fast enough she is growling and hollering at me. IT is pretty cute. I can't get over how adorable all of her faces are. She has so much charachter and spunk. I love my kids and am so blessed to have such a great family here to support me through these tough times. Thanks guys. We miss you all so much......... Now Cylee and Mike you guys need to get your butts up here already....haha

This is just a little recap of what has been going on in our lives lately.
Cherie girl and I. Love you too girl.....
Great pic of the boys..... Love the background....I had so much fun on that cruise even though it was raining for a mi nute.....

wanting to eat dirt before we go up to the space needle. Curious lil momma......

It's life......

2009-05-18T18:45:00.000-07:00

We got the news today that Tilden will be leaving again on Tues. for Japan. He wont be gone near as long as usual, so that is good. but he will still be gonE. Right now it is the best thing financially but the worst timing for family. Maddy and all the doctor apts. and lil miss Bella Louisa, she is going to be walking by the time he comes home. She is growing like a weed! I love that term, it's so true. lol. He missed so much already and just got to know her for the first time. I hate to see him miss so much, but I know that all this stuff makes us such a better couple and closer family. I love you Tilden so much!! I am so proud of the man you are. You are so strong and sacrifice so much for us, We are so thankful.
Maddux goes in for an MRI. on june 30th. He will have to be put under so that is my main concern. I wish Tilden was going to be here for that. But we have gotten all of the other results back and they are all negative. YAY!!! So for right now all he has is Low Thyroid and growth hormone deficiency. So that is a plus. What he has lost we cannot get back but we can definetly stop him from losing more. So we are on the upside of this battle. For now we face another challenge of daddy leaving again.

Alfalfa girl

2009-05-09T12:09:00.000-07:00

Bella is getting so dang big!!! She is adorable in the tub and everywhere. She is so on the go now it is rediculous. I can't keep up with her. I will have more posts to come. I am playing catch up now. lol. I have so many new pics to post. oh and MOM and Carlene I didnt forget, your mothers day cards are on the way!!!! But because they are not going to be there tom. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!!

So Proud of You......

2009-05-08T23:03:00.000-07:00

It has been awhile since I last posted. Sorry guys I have been extremely busy. But I wanted to start my post off by what has been going on the most lately and who has had the most excitement around here. Little Maddux. We are so proud of you HOney. We started talking to Maddux awhile back and trying to teach him about saving money and working for your money. So he did a few little jobs. Which he didn't really keep on track. His little mind wandered everywhere else. haha But He did earn some money. THen the Easter bunny left him some money in his easter eggs. So by the time we had moved into our new house he was ready to buy this wheelbarrow. He had his eye on this wheelbarrow for a few weeks now. He kept asking "mom do I have enough money for the wheelbarrow now. Do I mom". I would ask him what he wanted to do with the wheelbarrow and he would say he wanted to put some flowers in it and some weeds and then plant the flowers. So when we counted his piggy bank he had 12 dollars and we headed to Kmart to where the Wheelbarrow was. So we had him go get the wheelbarrow and put it in the cart but he didnt want to do that he wanted to push it around. So then we headed outside to find some flowers that he wanted to put in it and plant. He found what he wanted and then we headed to the check out where he had to count out his money and pay the clerk. I helped him of course but it was just so adorable to watch him count the money and pay her. I am so proud of how hard you worked and saved for something you wanted. You are such a smart boy. So of course right when we got home we headed outside to weed and plant his flowers. Once we got out there and the work actually started it wasnt as fun as it sounded he decided. so he just watched me weed and then helped me put a few flowers in the ground. He is so dang cute and so proud of what he paid for. Love you Boo.
We even saved the reciept to show his first purchase at 4 years old.
So excited......
So then we get into the haircut. Maddux has been complaining lately about wanting his hair to be short so I finally decided to cut it myself. Sorry mom I know how you loved those curls but it's what Maddy wanted. and of course he loves it. He especially loves it when daddy does his hair in a mohawk.
So Maddux has always been small for his age. We get asked all the time how old is he. He talks so good. And then we tell them he is going to be 5 and they can't believe it. He has been going to physical therapy for about 2and ahalf years now for a developmental muscle delay. So we knew he had that but just being his mom I knew something else was going on with him. We took him to all kinds of doctors and they all told us he was fine just small. we saw dieticians and meal planning people and he is still small. So finally we had enough and went back to the doctor again and demanded they actually do testing on him to see if he is fine. So we went to Maddigan Army Hospitol, in tacoma wa and he saw a neuro specialist and just from doing some small simple testing he told us something was up. They did an xray of his hand to see the size of his bones and at age 4 they should be progressed and all the plates and everything should be there well his bones are the size of a 1 year 9 month old. We then headed up to the lab to get his blood drawn and do you honestly think that a 4 year old is just going to sit there while you take 8 things of blood. Well mine didn't. so we couldnt do it in the lab we had to go back up to pediatrics where he was just held down. It broke my heart. We left there and headed to our favorite store Cabela's YAY.... Maddy loves the kids toys there. and Looking at all the cool stuff with dad. While we were there I got a call from the doc and he said one of the tests came back positive for a thyroid disfunction. so before they do medicine they have to get all the tests back and we have to see more doctors. well they also want to do an MRI because there is a slight possibilty that it could be a tumor on his adrenel gland. im not sure how to spell all that medical stuff so bear with me. anyway im taken that as the worst case scenario. I am hoping and praying it is only thyroid. So for now we are just waiting for more apts. I will keep updating often about this.
We had a great time at Cabelas. Maddux got a new truck set for being so great at the doctors and we all just had fun being together and having fun.
Other than a ton of apts and moving I think we are adjusting and getting back on track. We all love the new house. an exta room is always needed. And Maddux and Bella are getting along great. Maddux is such a great big brother. He is always wanting to play with his sissy. He loves to roll things to her cuz she is learning how to roll them back so now he is starting to acutally have fun with her. The other day Tilden and I were telling Bella to say momma and dadda the usual baby talk and Maddux jumped in and said Bella say Maaadddddyyyy. It was hilarious. Maddux just has to look at Bella and her face lights up. I am so blessed I have such a great loving family.
Playing with a bear hat. silly man
Pretty fish in the tanks at Cabela's.

quick update.....

2009-04-09T00:24:00.001-07:00

A lot has been going on at our house the last week so I haven't been able to post like I wanted. But to let everyone know the Carbon Monoxide issue was not resolved and the levels 3 nights ago were so high I started to feel the side effects. The gas smell was very strong and the carbon monoxide levels were at 209. Super dangerous. The first thing we do is check our kids to make sure they are still breathing. We finally had enough and went to housing and demanded a new house. And it was actually suprising because they were very willing to help and give us a new house. So here we are today one day later and we got the keys to our new bigger house! We only have until monday to be moved out and have our old place cleaned. But it is for the better. So I will eventually be posting some new pics here soon.

2009-03-28T17:54:00.000-07:00

My sweet little Maddux. He is so adorable. He keeps me laughing and on my toes. haha. He is out on spring break right now and it has been great having him at home with Bella and I. The other day Tilden told him no about something and instead of getting mad and throwing a fit he just looked up at daddy and said dad lets sit on the couch and talk about this. Tilden just broke out laughing. He is growing up. It is so sweet to watch him play. he loves to play pretend and make believe. And I love love love it how he loves to take pics. he is my little model. I love you boo....
The sweetest boy.
Little stud.
What mom....
Maddux was being silly and wearing my hat and making Bella laugh. He is so sweet to her. HE is such a great big brother. everytime Bella sees him she lights up.
Maddux loves his tummy time with Sissy.

Just an update.....

2009-03-28T16:37:00.000-07:00

So since Tilden has been home the weather has actually been a little decent. We decided to go on a walk with the kids and dogs.
I tried to handle the dogs for a bit. They are handful...
Just gettin back from the walk and Bella was passed out.
The boys went on an adventure. This is Maddy's favorite thing to do.
Headin out.
Getting ready to head out.
My baby girl..
Pretty blue eyes.
little doll baby
Getting ready to take off.
Im gonna do it....
Bella is getting so big. She is now at the stage where she gets herself in the crawl position and just rocks. It is the cutest thing. The last week Bella finally caught the bug that has been going around. It is her first time being sick. Poor little girl. But she is pulling through and is going to get her 6 month shots next week.

Welcome Home Tilden......

2009-03-07T12:51:00.000-08:00

The sign we had made for our soldier! Thanks babe for all you do for us.
It has been an amazing 24 hrs. It is so wonderful to have Tilden home and all of us be together again. Picking him up was so many feelings all at once, I was all shaky and butterflies in my stomache. I just couldnt wait to kiss him and hug him. We deff realize we take each other and many other things for granted but this time apart deff makes us appreciate each other and all the small things. Maddux couldn't hardly wait to see him walk off the plane and into the terminal. And little miss Bella I think she recognized the voice but was definetly a little confused. He talked alot to her on the phone while he was gone just so she wouldnt forget him completly. Yest and today have been amazing so far, and im sure for the next while they will be. Things are a little surreal still but we are all adjusting. Tilden is doing great. And he looks awesome!! I have taken a ton of pics already.
So mom and Cy, this is what I wore. not too bad right. I thought it was pretty darn cute. and I must say Tilden was pretty happy at what he saw too. haha lol
The plane right when it landed.
Patiently waiting.........
All dressed up to see Daddy!Glad you are all home safe and thank you all for serving our country!!! WELCOME HOME!
There he is!!!! Walking in to us!! YAY!!! What a stud muffin!
Maddux ran up to him and daddy picked him right up for a tight hug that was long overdue!!!
Trying to hug all at once haha and see his new little girl. We sure missed you babe. Glad your home safe. Bella's first kiss from daddy! Love you babe.
Just the 4 of us again at last! First family pic of 2009!
Daddy's girl!
She is trying to figure him out! Tilden brought home all kinds of stuff so we played dress up last night and this is what I would look like if I was in the military. and I swear every military ID I have seen they all look mad. I wonder why..... haha We had a lot of fun playin around.
Cuddle time for Maddux and Daddy. He missed cuddling with daddy. I love my boys.
Daddy's first time feeding Bella. and you did great babe! Tilden has always loved trying to put his kids in the air to balance with him holding her with one hand. Your sure crazy daddy. Bella sure loves you though. And we are so so so so so glad you are home safe back with us. We are so proud of you and all that you are.

This is it......

2009-03-06T09:21:00.000-08:00

I can't even begin to explain how I feel right now!!! I am so dang excited to see Tilden. 4 months is such a long time. I feel like I am going to have to relearn how to do everything. haha. not really but it just feels so fake. It just doesnt seem real that this is happening. I got everything all finished up yest. I got the sign hung, the house clean, and the truck running. we are good to go!! AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH I am so excited. I just wanted to share my excitement with everyone!! and not only am I excited im nervous! I know when I am standing in the airport waiting for him I will be all shaky and most likely cry. haha but I know my emmotions will be overwhelming! I can't wait to finally have new pics to post. Less than 5 hours and we will be a family again. I will keep you all updated. This is now a new chapter in our book! IM READY..............

The Countdown is on......

2009-02-24T19:21:00.000-08:00

We are so excited to say that Tilden is coming HOME!!!!!!!! We can't wait. The plain leaves from there on the 4th and he should be here on Fri. Oh man we have been preparing for him to come home now for about a month. haha well it seems like that. But I am so excited. I had a really nice banner made for his homecoming. It's huge. 6ft by 8ft. I had this website make it called BuildASign.com it was awesome. THey due free signs for military people. So any military people get on it. They only have 2 smaller signs for free but they give you great deals on other sizes. The shipping is what cost the most. Maddux and I made a chain link paper thing to count down the days. Maddy gets to take one off everyday til Daddy gets here. Maddux is getting excited but I have been saying for ever now that Tilden was going to be home soon, so he probably doesnt know the diff. but he knows somethings up because I have been doing alot to prepare these last few days. We are now just patiently waiting til he gets here!!!! We will keep everybody updated on his arrival. and new pics to come.......

Stuck in the desert and still in love...........

2009-02-19T10:01:00.000-08:00

So ,

I know that it is a little bit late for a Valentines Blog but give me a break I’m in the freakin Desert! I have thought a lot about writing a poem or something

But I really don’t feel that would convey my thought’s properly. I have a incredible wife. She is the one person in this big world full of people that truly understands

Who I am. I don’t just mean my likes and dislikes, I mean she finishes my sentences, gives me something before I ask for it and is basically a mind reader. I try not

To take her for granted but despite my efforts realize I could do better. Cass is both a incredible wife and a amazing mother, any kid would be lucky to have her for

A mom and I am lucky enough to know that all of mine will have that joy. Guy’s always talk about their significant other to each other as I’m sure girls do. I really think

That if people could hear the great things you say behind their back it would be a better world. So here I go. You, know how I know I have the best wife in the world?

…..Because when I say Hey babe I want to go fishing today she say’s let me pack a lunch and me and the kids will come……. Then she lay’s out on the blanket next to

Me and plays with maddy and gets a tan, But every time I ask her if she wants to go because we have been there longer than any normal woman would want to she

Cheerfully say’s…..That’s ok babe let’s stay a little longer and see if we can catch something……… FIVE HOURS later when most couples would be giving the silent

Treatment all the way home, She squeezes my hand and tells me she had fun today we should do it more often. (while she’s pregnant!) This is just one example of

More than I can count when I realized I have tripped and stumbled into the best relationship of my life. I couldn’t ask for a more loving, beautiful and all together

Shining example of the Standard of greatness for a wife, best friend and companion. I thank god for her every time I look at her picture, think of her memory or a

Experience we have shared. I wish for nothing but to spend the eternities in her company, and hope she knows my heart is hers alone.

I LOVE YOU CASS AND ALWAYS WILL YOU ARE MY SOFT SPOT IN A HARD IRON SHELL

Be My Valentine.....

2009-02-03T10:35:00.000-08:00

Here is one of my two Valentines!!! We had so much fun yesterday takin pics with a bunch of pedals. Maddux loved throwing them in the air. I have the sweetest kids in the world. I am so blessed to have them in my life. I took so many pics it was hard to choose.

I love Valentines day! Tilden and I seem to always be apart on this holiday but I am looking forward to the day when he can be here for it. But I am so thankful to have two beautiful children to be mine! HAPPY EARLY VALENTINES DAY!!!

Bella's first Foods..

2009-02-03T10:20:00.001-08:00

So Bella had her 4 month check up last Tues and it went great!!! He said I could introduce her to food now. but take it slow. So I couldn't wait to see her reaction. She did great actually eating it besides the occasional gag or two haha but she was so adorable. She has the sweetest personality.

I saw this chair a while ago and I wanted to get it so bad so I finally decided to just go out and get it but of course I had to drive off the island to find one but I did and it was worth the trip and the money. Dont let this little chair fool you. its pretty pricey for a piece of rubbery foam. but I am so glad I got it. From the day I had Bella she always wanted to sit up and if she started to ever fuss we just would sit her up and she was fine so this is perfect for her. She LOves IT!!!!!

2009-01-25T18:37:00.000-08:00

Well I told Cylee (my sis) I would post. even though nothing really exciting has happened. but I guess just to update Bella turned 4months today!! Wow how they grow. It is amazing. Maddux is still going to school and is just getting ready to start his therapy back up, here in a week. Everyday Maddy is saying something new and crazy. He is so sweet. and is so adorable with bella. except when she watches cartoons with him he doesnt like that. anyway we are just pluggin along and counting down the days til Tilden comes home to us.
I am loving my new camera. It is so fun to play around. especially when I have two cuties to dress up all day.

It started to warm up and turned out to be a pretty nice day so we decided to bundle up and head outside. We have been having a carbon monoxide scare at the house the last few months. and this time it was not just a scare it was really there. so we had to stay at a friends house for a few days til housing got it all fixed. but that wasnt the end of it. Turns out there was also a gas leak. but hopefully we are in the clear now and they got it taken care of. but maddy got pretty comfy playing chicken little on the air mattress at emily's. Thanks Em for letting us camp out.
sweet sweet baby

2009

2009-01-15T15:51:00.000-08:00

WoW! I haven't blogged since last year!! haha I can't believe another year is down. I had a wonderful 2008 welcoming our precious little joy, moving into a house and just growing together as a family. I can't wait for my new year to start with Tilden! We heard that he may be coming home the first of March! I can't wait. Bella is growing like a weed. she is already weighing 13 lbs. I have many new years goals but I have narrowed it down to the ones I am working hardest at and the ones I just say I want to have but dont really do. haha you all know you have those goals. I hope everyone had great HOlidays and A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

25 cent bowling night!!

I think he is going to be a chef when he grows up. but for someone who likes to cook so much he doesnt want to eat it.

He loves to make the grape face. haha YOu know what im talking about family. hahaha

Bella 3 1/2 months old.

Oh Bella

2008-12-27T07:49:00.000-08:00

Bella is such a sweet little girl. It is amazing how fast she is already growing. I love the cooing and the sweet baby chatter. It is going to be fun to see what Tilden says about her when he finally gets to see her again for the first time since she was 5 wks. old. She has definetly changed alot already. It is going to be an adventure with this little girl. but I can't wait to see what she grows up to be. Love you Bella.

Idaho so far......

2008-12-22T17:37:00.000-08:00

We arrived in Idaho on the 17th to a ton of snow. It is going to be a white Christmas. It has been fun so far. We have had 2 xmas parties. My sister and her family came up from Reno, Nv. It was so so so good to see them, it has been to long. I love hangin with my sister she is the best. She is such a good listener and is always there for me to lean on. Love you Cy!!! They had to leave Sunday, which was sad to see them go. 4 days is not long enough to spend with them. But it was good to have the cousins together and to finally meet my niece Morgan. What a doll she is. Here are just a few random pics from the trip so far. It takes forever to put up pics now with my new camera because I have to resize all the pics. So I will have more up later. but here are a few for now.

Beautiful little Bella

The kiddos and I at the Collet xmas party.

Jake and I at my parents xmas party being crazy as usual

My gorgeous sister and I. Cy I wish you would keep your eyes open!!! hahaha Love ya

Maddux got to open a present early. WALLE haha

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

2008-12-16T09:46:00.001-08:00

Today is my wife Cassie’s birthday,

I’m not much of a blogger and have tried to think of some brilliant poem or parody but to be honest I don’t feel that those things best describe Cass. For those of you that really know Cassie she is one of the most down to earth people that I know. That is what I love about her. She is truly one of those people who were blessed with the ability to show and express love and bless every life she touches. No matter where we go or who we meet people go out of their way to spend time with her and gain her association. There are a lot of good people in the world but it is truly rare to find someone who trusts and loves the people around them so unconditionally. Cassie is everything that a husband or child could ever want in a wife and mother. Sense we have been married she has opened doors to my heart that I didn’t know existed, she is truly the bandit that picked the locks and stole my heart. I want her to know that I am a better person when she is by my side. They say behind every great man there is a woman and I want her to know that when I finally become the man I want to be that no one will ever have to look behind me because she will always be at my side. She is my partner in crime, wife, best friend and one true love.

Happy birthday Cass I love you always and would be lost without you. I also want you to know that you are beautiful inside and out and I would happy spend the rest of eternity lost in your arms staring at those beautiful blue eyes.

-T (aka The lucky guy your brother accidently brought to your parents )

Destiny’s weird huh?

Family Cheer

2008-12-13T22:26:00.001-08:00

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

December Update....

2008-12-13T17:14:00.000-08:00

We have had a few things going on. Well first of all today is Tilden's Bday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABE!!!! WE LOVE AND MISS YOU!!!! We are so proud of you and are so thankful for all you do for us. You are a great man, and the BEST PILOT. Im proud to be your co pilot. Love you always and forever.
Tilden suprised me with the camera of my dreams!! the new Nikond90. I got it Thursday and I love it. It was a whole kit. It came with an awesome lens and bags and tripods and so much more. Thanks babe I love it!!! If you havent been able to tell my pictures have been so horrible and I have been complaining forever for a new camera but I never thought it would be this one. IT is amazing. So these pics are with the new camera. keep in mind I am a newbie so I am just on the basics for now. Oh man it is so exciting to have the best pictures that capture that moment. So I have been playing the last few days.
I can't wait to come home for Christmas and introduce all of our family and friends to Bella. Christmas is going to be lonely this year without Tilden but I am thankful that we have a great family that we will be sharing it with. And I am oh so excited to meet my new niece Morgan Ann. And Maddux said that he is excited to play with Cole and Carson.haha I love the Holidays!!!! We start our journey home in the next few days. We can't wait to see you all!!!!

My adorable Maddux.

Bella sucking her thumb!!

But she refuses a plug!
Stephanie my good friend came up for a job interview and was intown for a quick 3days so we met up and had a great time. It's always fun to see her.

what a cutie butt

To My Family.....

2008-12-13T09:09:00.000-08:00

Today is my birthday. I am 25 years old. It seems like the older you get the less significant of an occasion it becomes. When you are young it is a big deal with lots of presents and a party, but as you age it becomes less of a occasion just another year and a list of things you failed to accomplish. Then it becomes significant once more as you approach mortality. Once again a party with presents to celebrate the fact that you lived another year on this earth with your family and loved ones. I guess age is our odometer telling us how many miles we have traveled and reminding us to take care of the fragile body we have been blessed with. Like a car with proper care and maintenance we can keep the wheels to the road enjoying all life has to offer. Instead of celebrating the fact that I am 25 this year I think I would rather bask in the fact that my engine is running and I have a beautiful life filled with incredible people who love me and share my joy on this road trip we call life.

To my wife Cassie: I’ll love you forever and couldn’t ask for a better co pilot.

To my son Maddux: Even when I can’t be there I love you and can’t wait to go on another adventure.

To my daughter Bella: You are everything innocent and beautiful in the world and I love you more than life itself.

To my family: Freedom is not free and you all pay the cost everyday and I will always love you for the sacrifices you make. I love you all with my whole heart and would gladly give my life to protect you from the evils of this world. Thank you for standing behind me and giving me the courage and love to go on you are my heart.

-T

Thanksgiving....

2008-12-04T16:08:00.000-08:00

Oh I love this picture. She has so much personality. It makes me giggle when I see it. This was Bella's Thanksgiving outfit.

My camera is horrible!! (new camera coming soon) But this is just to show how cute her tights were. They looked like little black shoes.

Caleb and Maddux eating some good turkey dinner!

The kids playing Mr. Mouth. Maddux got it for his bday.

First family pic, not taken by me since Tilden left. haha Thanks Lacey.

Lacey, Michael, Caleb and Conner joined us for Thanksgiving. Thank you guys for spending it with us. It wasn't the same without Tilden but we got through it and had great company.

Maddy's Bday

2008-12-04T15:46:00.000-08:00

Maddux likes helping me with everything so he made is bday cake. yummy He told me for weeks before his bday all he wanted was a blue cake with candles. I even offered the nice cakes from the store but he said no just a blue one with candles. haha so i did. it wasnt very pretty but he liked it and he liked helping make it.

Sorry Bella its hard to take a good pic and hold you

Sweet little baby girl.

Maddux and Daxson playing!

HAHA Maddux got some pirate gear. I love the earing. haha lol

He loves to fix stuff just like Daddy.

Happy Bday Maddux!!!!

2008-11-22T07:57:00.000-08:00

It seems like just yesterday I had you. It's crazy that you are growing up so fast. At 1:19 am. you were 4 years old. You have come so far in this world already, with all the trials you have overcome. I am so proud of you and blessed that you are my son. Have a Happy Bday! We love you mommy and daddy!!

Maddux Randall Carter 11-22-04
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

A baby must have

2008-11-19T13:05:00.000-08:00

So I have this wonderful and crafty friend Lacey and she makes slings and peekaboobies. haha they are so great. The peekaboobies are nursing covers that are so awesome for use in public. But my favorite is the sling. I have to tell you that I bought this sling wrap from some tree hugger store up here that cost 75 dollars and I cant figure the dang thing out. It is so long and complicated that you have to have 2 people put it on you. So that doesnt work for me. But up there in the picture I am wearing the sling that Lacey made me as a gift for Bella. It is so easy and works great. I recommend anyone that has a little one needs one. Bella doesnt like her carseat and since Tilden has been gone, going to the store is a nightmare. I have to carry Bella and push the cart at the same time. and Maddux in the cart. Going to wal mart one time made me so thankful for the great things we have to help us. Thank you Lacey for the great sling. So now when I go to the store this is how I wear it. Bella just falls asleep.

8 Things

2008-11-19T11:40:00.000-08:00

This is my first time being tagged so here goes. haha

8 TV SHOWS I LIKE TO WATCH:

-Greys Anatomy
-Ugly Betty
-The Hills
-Nip Tuck
-Sons of Anarchy
-Oprah
-Dateline
-NCIS

8 PLACES I LIKE TO EAT:

-Olive Garden
-Texas Roadhouse (only in Idaho)
-Red Lobster
-Taco bell
-KFC
-Jumbo buffet
-BBQ joint
-The Mad Crab

8 THINGS I DID TODAY:

-Woke up
-Changed Bella's diaper
-Made Breakfast
-Got kids ready
-Got myself ready
-picked up
-Blogged
-Played with dogs

8 THINGS IM LOOKING FORWARD TO:

-Tilden coming HOME
-Maddux's bday
-Thanksgiving
-My bday
-Xmas
-Going home to family
-Accomplishing Goals
-A New YEar

8 THINGS I CANT LIVE WITHOUT:

-Husband
-Kids
-Cell phone
-Food
-Clothes
-Shelter
-Car
-Money

Now... Tag 8 people.
Cylee, Paul, Ben, Shana, Kara, Shannon, Lacey, Shelby
Have fun

They grow so fast

2008-11-13T13:34:00.000-08:00

I can't believe how much she has already changed just since Tilden left. She is at the stage where she is trying so hard to talk. She gets so excited and her arms and legs start going crazy and then this little adorable noise comes out. It's great!! And her hair is gettin so much longer already. its pretty funny. its turning into a little mullet. haha not really. but could be eventually. but anyway not a whole lot has been going on thats too fun. just super busy with appts and taking Maddux to school. but Maddux's bday is coming up on the 22nd. so that should be a fun day. we are just having a small little get together for him with a few friends at our house. it should be fun for him. I can't believe he will be 4 already. Time is flyin like crazy.

She is all smiles. It is so cute. I am having so much fun with her.

mommas girl!

This one is my favorite.

Saying Goodbye.....

2008-11-07T09:26:00.000-08:00

He looks so good in uniform. haha
On Nov, 2nd we had to say goodbye to Tilden, once again as he goes back on deployment to Qatar. (Near Bahrain and Iraq) He will be gone for 5 months.
It is always so hard to say goodbye. Now more than ever. We just had a baby girl!!! He is going to miss alot. And Maddux he always goes through a hard patch when he leaves. He gets real angry. but that is to be expected. Thats his way of showing how he feels. This time around is definetly harder for me. Maddux is in school 4 days a week and therapy on the other day. So he is busy. as well as little baby girl. and can't forget our dogs. Which they are also acting out but I wont get into detail.) He has only been gone 6 days and I feel overwhelmed at times. So I didnt realize how much he really did for me and us. I feel like I am always complaining for him to do more. But when I look at it he does so much already. All the small things add up to make big things. I am going to miss him so much. So Yeah I am very jelous for all of you who are going to be with your families for the holidays. I so wish he could be with us. So be grateful of your loved ones this holiday season. We love and miss you babe!

We had to be at the airport at 5:30 am. and we didnt get to bed until 1 so we look a little tired. Our last kiss goodbye.

Daddys little girl........

Maddy at 5:30 am. haha he was so tired.

COME HOME SAFE!!!!!!!!!

Visitors......

2008-11-05T18:54:00.000-08:00

The last week in October we had Tilden's brother Chance and his girlfriend Tiffany stay with us. We had a lot of fun with them. Here is at the corn maze on Oct 29th. And I had to have my Bestie Lacey and her two cuties come. It was fun. Maddux and Caleb are close little friends. Its cute.

Bedtime stories. They are so cute.

And this is right before we went out to Trick or Treat.
Happy Halloween the Carter's
haha

Halloween 08

2008-11-05T16:25:00.000-08:00

So it took a little while to convince Maddux to let us paint his face but after I pulled the mirror out so he could watch he started to like it. This year Tilden figured out maddy's costume from stuff we had at home. Prices are getting scary so it helped not to have to buy a 25 dollar costume. This year he was a cowboy hunter ghost. haha he really liked it. And he was so stinkin cute. As a little boy Tilden loved Halloween and he still does, so he gets really into gettin dressed up, painting faces and going out. This year was a lot of fun for us.

Sweet little Bella, she was an adorable banana. She fit in the costume perfect. But started to sweat a little while after being in it. so it was just cute for pictures I guess. We werent to thrifty with her costume. We ended up buying hers. But saved on the other. lol.

They are too cute.

Scary guy!!!

Just the two of us......

My new hair color....

2008-10-13T19:12:00.000-07:00

So I finally got my haircut but just the Aline cut off and then I colored it myself. It was long past time to do something with my hair. My highlights were down to my ears and the bottom was blonde and the top was brown. it was horrible. so here is what i did. Then we went for a little walk and I got to use the baby wrap we bought that was ridiculously expensive but it was great. and Bella loved it. But me and Maddy and Bella had a fun time taking a few pics.

I love my cute lil man

And I love my cute lil girl

Tilden had to help me get her wrapped in it but it worked out well. I love it!!!

I made Tilden get in one shot with us.

Bella's pink dress...

2008-10-07T17:35:00.000-07:00

Tilden's parents arrived to meet the new baby late Sunday night (Oct. 5th) It was a short visit but nice. Carlene (tilden's mom) hand made Bella a pink dress that she is wearing and it is so adorable. so thank you Carlene so much we love it. So right before they left we took a few pics of her in her new dress with Maddy. Bella had her check up today wich was two days early from being two weeks old and she has gained a pound in one week. she now weighs 8lbs 6oz. She is growin like crazy already. We are just having so much fun with her and Maddux. They are too cute.

What has happened lately...

2008-10-05T20:30:00.000-07:00

Alright so the last week and a half has been crazy around here.(Well at least for me). We have been enjoying our little new girl so much. it has been so fun. Maddux is such a great big brother and little helper. and Tilden has also been great. Now for me as you can see in the last pic it is of my feet well, I have had a few bad accidents lately I first burnt my nipple with the curling iron after I got out of the shower, (I wont go into to much detail about that) and two days after that the same day I went to the doc for it I fell down a few steps and thought I broke my ankle for sure. So we ended up in the emergency room all night. Thank goodness it is not broken just twisted. but the swelling is unbelievable. It is so huge that when i touch it with my finger it leaves an indent for like 2 min. So I am now layed up on the couch with Krutches.? not sure how to spell that. but it has been horrible and driving me crazy not to move at all. but it has now been 3 days and it is getting better. Maddux gets a kick out of me, he says mom are you hippyin around. Hippy over here. and then laughs. But Maddux is doing great at school and loving it and making so many new friends. Every day he comes home with new stories to tell us. The other night we were sitting down and he said he didnt want to go to school anymore he said "I want to get big and read somethin with my bigness". It was so hilarious. we have now started a tablet with all of the funny things he says and does.

Tilden and I were talking the other day and he said to me "man she poops so loud and it sounds like there is so much pressure built up and coming out. I bet it could shoot real far" well the next day he was changing her diaper and what do ya know she shot pooh all over him. It was so hilarious that i started choking and Tilden was just in shock. hahahahaha. Bella is so pretty when she smiles Tilden was kissing her and his hair was tickling her face when she was half asleep. She is so stinking cute. So that is our update on pics for the last week and a half. I hope to post more often as soon as it gets easier for me to get to the office. hahahahaha

Maternity pics with the family

2008-10-02T11:47:00.000-07:00

We had these pictures done when I was almost 37 weeks. We had a lot of fun taking them, and maddy always loves his picture taken. Tilden also did an excellent job as well. I was very proud of both of them. But I figured Bella is already here so I should put them up before it gets to far out. haha

Bella Louisa Carter

2008-09-27T18:52:00.000-07:00

We are proud to announce the new life of Bella Louisa Carter. She was born 9-25-08 at 11:05 am. Weighing 7lbs 8oz and 19.5 in. and a full head of dark brown hair. We went in at 6 on wed evening and I was planning on being enduced Thurs morning at 7 but I went into labor on my own and she came out perfect. By the time the docs got there to give me an epideral I was already at an 8. I never thought that the birthing classes would come in to handy and all the breathing we practiced but it was used the whole time. Tilden was right there by my side counting and breathing with me. I have such a wonderful husband. It was such an amazing expeirence to share with Tilden. He has been great. and Maddux already loves his baby sister. He has been helping me and wont stop giving her kisses. We still havent decided who she looks like but she is so perfect. We were also blessed to have my parents here again to help us with Maddy while we were in the hospitol. so before they left to Cys house we took some pics. I just want my family to know that I am so blessed to have them all in my life. and such great support. I will be posting more pics in a few days.

Today is finally the day.......

2008-09-24T08:25:00.000-07:00

Wow I can't believe it is here already. But I am so ready for it to be. We are going in to the hospitol today at 5 to start labor. I wasn't nervous at first but now I think I am getting that way and excited and scared and so many different feelings. I just can't wait to see her face and meet her for the first time. I went in to the doc yesterday and he stripped my membranes. haha that sounds so funny. but it was pretty uncomfortable but he was just trying to get me started. after that we went and walked around the mall forever and the contractions were coming. Oh man I think I slept a total of 3 hours last night. between the contractions and the hands being numb and sore. Non the less we have a super busy schedule today to pass the time and Maddux is going to his first day of Preeschool. I am so proud I am seeing one off to school and starting another. Life is so amazing and precious. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful family. My parents came and I am so glad that they are here to support and help us. They have always been a big part of our lives. Well this is going to be the last post for a few days but I promise I will try and get on it as soon as I get home. Or try and convince Tilden to do it. haha

New baby Morgan Ann.......

2008-09-16T06:57:00.001-07:00

My sister finally had her baby this last Fri. the 12th. at around 2:45. If it wasnt for text messages I wouldnt have known til after. (Thanks Michael for keeping me updated on my sis) I am so happy for them. I cant wait to meet her. So far all we can do is the web cam and pics. but hey some is better than non. I am glad that we have the technology to talk live now. Morgan Ann weighed 8lbs 2oz. Her brothers Cole and Carson are so stinkin cute and are proud to be big brothers. LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!

Nursery

2008-09-15T16:10:00.000-07:00

So I finally recieved the rest of the baby's room stuff and I got it all put up and I love it!! I have been obssesed with pink and brown so her room of course is that color. I had so much fun putting it all together. The only bummer, she has to share the room with the computer stuff. but that's okay im still very happy with how it turned out.

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Anyone can cook....

2008-09-15T16:03:00.000-07:00

So I haven't been feeling well the last few days and Maddux wanted to help me make chicken noodle soup, and the first thing he said was Anyone can cook. (from Ratatouee) not sure how to spell that. And after we laughed a bit from that he said we are like a TV show mom. haha. After we got finished chopping the veggies we had to shred the chicken and he was supposed to be putting them in the bowl but instead each piece from the plate went straight into his mouth. I love my little cooker. He says the funniest things. Our lil boy is getting so big. and oh so very smart. I am so proud of him.

Today is Sept. 11th

2008-09-11T10:30:00.000-07:00

This is for every man and woman fighting for us, and for my husband....

You stay up for 16 hours.
He stays up for days on end.

You take a warm shower to help you wake up.
He goes days or weeks without running water.

You complain of a "headache", and call in sick.
He gets shot at as others are hit, and keeps moving forward.

You put on your anti war/don't support the troops shirt, and go meet up with your friends.
He still fights for your right to wear that shirt.

You talk trash about your "buddies" that aren't with you.
He knows he may not see some of his buddies again.

You walk down the beach, staring at all the pretty girls.
He patrols the streets, searching for insurgents and terrorists.

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You complain about how hot it is.
He wears his heavy gear, not daring to take off his helmet to wipe his brow.

You go out to lunch, and complain because the restaurant got your order wrong.
He doesn't get to eat today.

Your maid makes your bed and washes your clothes.
He wears the same things for weeks, but makes sure his weapons are clean.

You go to the mall and get your hair redone.
He doesn't have time to brush his teeth today.

You're angry because your class ran 5 minutes over.
He's told he will be held over an extra 2 months.

You call your girlfriend and set a date for tonight.
He waits for the mail to see if there is a letter from home.

You hug and kiss your girlfriend, like you do everyday.
He holds his letter close and smells his love's perfume.

You roll your eyes as a baby cries.
He gets a letter with pictures of his new child, and wonders if they'll ever meet.

You criticize your government, and say that war never solves anything.
He sees the innocent tortured and killed by their own people and remembers why he is fighting.

You hear the jokes about the war, and make fun of men like him.
He hears the gunfire, bombs and screams of the wounded.

You see only what the media wants you to see.
He sees the broken bodies lying around him.

You are asked to go to the store by your parents. You don't.
He does exactly what he is told even if it puts his life in danger.

You stay at home and watch TV.
He takes whatever time he is given to call, write home, sleep, and eat.

If you support your troops, the click "reply to poster" copy all the codes, and repost the bulletin.

If you don't support your troops well, then don't re-post. You won't die in 7 days, your love life won't be affected, and you won't have the worst day ever. You don't have to repost. It's not like you know the men and women that are dying to preserve your rights.

WHETHER YOU ARE FOR IT OR AGAINST IT IS IRRELIVENT, REALITY IS THAT OUR MEN AND WOMEN ARE STILL FIGHTING, PLEASE KEEP THIS GOING ..

Rest of the pics

2008-09-07T23:47:00.000-07:00

This is my amazing friend Lacey that put the whole thing together. She is so crafty. Isn't the cake great?? I loved it so thanks Lace.

I was so glad that my mother was able to be there. It was awesome to have some family. And Maddux is holding up on of the adorable gifts I recieved from cheri. She painted onesies for me. She wanted to make them a lil homemade. and they came out great. It says Ipood. hahaha

The Baby Shower..

2008-09-07T15:58:00.001-07:00

So my parents brought Maddux home last night and it was so good to see him. I have missed him so much. But with them my mom also brought me the pics from the baby shower. I am obsessed with pink and brown so pretty much everything are those colors. So here are a few pics from that day.

This is maddux and his friend caleb

Tilden did a great job keeping all the kids entertained outside while all of us mothers were in the house playing. Tilden and my dad Randy where the only male adults in a house full of women and they did suprisingly well. (as long as we keep the food and goodies coming) haha
I have more pics to post but my computer is being weird again. so I will post them at another time. for now these are what I have.

Stil Patiently Waiting......

2008-09-03T15:46:00.001-07:00

So we went to my doctor apt. yesterday and the doc said that I am already dilated to a 1 1/2 2. So I am probably going to get induced around the 18th. so that means only two more weeks. I can hardly wait. At this point I am just so anxious and nervous and excited. I have so many emotions going on that it is hard to stay patient. But everything looks good. and we are so excited to get to finally meet our lil princess. We will know for sure what day we are going to go in and have her next tues. So I will keep ya updated.

Let the Freedom Begin...

2008-08-30T17:44:00.000-07:00

So Tilden and I have had a lot of free time together to actually go places and do things and not have to find a baby-sitter. We sure have been taking advatage of it, So We have had a lot of fun. We have been to the fair. We drove and hour and a half for it and it was still not even close to the good ole Idaho State Fair. we miss that most.... haha but while we were there I did have an exceptional corn on the cob. which has been an issue while being prego. I love it..... lol but we also got Bella a cowgirl hat and a few other little goodies. I of course had to leave with a carmel apple in hand. There was this awesome and amazing sculpture that this guy had done all out of sand. it was so cool. on our way back from that we stopped and saw a movie and then carried on home. Then next day we decided to go and get some last minute things before the baby gets here so we went back off the island and enjoyed a day of shopping and Olive Garden. And so here we are to yesterday, the Drive In was having a triple feature movie with 50 cent hot dogs and drinks. We so could not pass that up. but we definetly realized that when we got home at 3 in the morning why we dont do those things anymore. because we are getting older and cant handle it!!!!! I was so cramped up and stiff I felt like a Grandma. I guess we were trying to act like we were back in high school and thought we could stay out all night with no child. but in the end we just suffered. hahaha. But for now we are just laying low and have had our days of fun and adventure until Maddy comes home and can enjoy it with us. plus we are now broke.......

Here is the sculpture out of sand!!!

On the tractor ride to the car.

Oh so in love......

being silly on before we left the island...

Oh we love our dogs..

2008-08-30T17:36:00.000-07:00

I grew up in a house with no animals. Our parents didnt think that it was good to have dogs where we lived so I never got that experience to have them. Well now I have and we have the best dogs. Dont get me wrong we have our issues here and there. especially with Tilly getting into things and chewing but that is to be epected. she is only 9 weeks old. But Dixie is also a little mischievious sometimes. but non the less we love them. And Maddux loves them to death. I am glad we have them as part of our famiy.

missing my baby.......

2008-08-26T22:43:00.000-07:00

So my parents came up to have a quick visit on their way for some business and they stayed only one day. but it happened to be the perfect time because I was having my baby shower on saturday. So it was great to have them here for that. but in the sper of the moment they decided to take Maddux with them back to Idaho for a bit. The baby shower went great and I will have pictures up as soon as my mom makes me a copy of them. haha I thought them taking Maddy would be a great idea cuz he would have so much fun. And I am unable to take him back for a visit before the baby is born, but I am now realizing that it is so hard to be without him. I have only been without him once before like this and it was for our honeymoon. So I am missing him like crazy. I know that every mother out there has those days where they think when they are packing the car to go somewhere and they have to get everything ready,( snacks, juice, toy, stroller, and whatever else) that it is a pain in the butt and how easy it would be to just get it done without all that. but that is what we live for. at least I know I do. My every moment surrounds him and what he does. so not having him here is really weird. The house is so quiet and pretty clean. no toys to pick up. I thought it would be great to have a chance before Bella comes to get everything organized but I am now thinking that I still could have done it with him. and those everyday things that annoy me or the hard days that bug me are not so bad. and I would rather have those days then be without him. I love my lil man and I am so lonely without him. I love being a mother and wouldn't trade it for the world. It makes me so thankful that I have a great little boy that is so smart and adorable. I cant wait until he comes home and I can kiss his cute lil lips and give him a huge hug. I am so thankful..... and very blessed.......

finally.....

2008-08-19T16:31:00.000-07:00

Alright so here are all of the pics I tried posting last night. It finally worked.

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2008-08-19T16:19:00.000-07:00

what the crap!!

2008-08-18T20:23:00.000-07:00

so yeah I have been trying to post the pictures but there is some internal error so I am going to try again tomorrow becuase I dont have the patience. haha so hopefully tomorrow they will be up.

lots going on....

2008-08-18T20:03:00.000-07:00

So we went to my doctor today and I have gained so much weight it is scary!!!!! way more than I did with Maddux. but I guess the doc thinks that she is going to be a big girl. which is even scarier. haha but everything looks good. her head is not down but no need to be concerned as of now but my next apt which is sept 2 if she is not down then we need to start getting concerned and taking action. But I cant wait and I am so ready.
We also had the island county fair here this last weekend and I was so dying for some fried fair food thinking about Idaho's state fair so we went and I was so bummed. it was about a 5 min walk through the whole thing and I had like 5 food choices. very upseting. that is definetly one thing I miss about Idaho. I haven't been to the fair in 3 years and I so miss it. but in all fairness its not about me anymore and Maddux had a blast. he went on a few rides but he is so little they wouldnt let him on most. but he had a great time. and I at least got a carmel apple.

Tilden and I aslo have decided to not watch so many movies and start doing other things so we started playing monopoly and it was so much fun. I totally kicked his butt. He is so competetive and I love it when i can humble him. hahaha. And I can't forget that we also got a new addition to our family early!!!! another puppy. she is the sweetest thing and so adorable. her name is tilly. and her and dixie are so great together. well anyway here are a some pics updating on all these fun events so far. sorry they are not in order. I really want my page some day to look like all of yours out there that are amazing. but it is still a work in progress. haha

patiently waiting.....

2008-08-11T08:32:00.000-07:00

So I am still trying to get the hang of this blog thing and thanks to Shelbey I was able to put up a friends list finally. haha so thanks shelbey!!! But I need to be better at keeping up on posting. So since July Tilden has got a second job so that I can buy all the little things for our lil girl, so we hardly see him. but when we do we have such a blast. I kicked his butt at monopoly the other night and it was great!!! haha. we love to compete!! For Maddux he is going to start therapy in the pool on the 19th so he is pretty excited for that. I think it will help alot with his balance. plus our main therapist is leaving for her maternity leave. she is due on the 3rd. I cannot wait for our girl to come I am to the point where I am pretty uncomfortable and so ready to have her out. I am 33 weeks and 2 days so not too much longer left but enough....haha Dixie our sweet loving lil dog is growing so big... but she will soon have a playmate we are getting another puppy Tues. a yellow lab. so she wont be so bored outside by herself. So for now we are just getting prepared for baby to come....

2008-07-18T22:34:00.000-07:00

So these fresh pics are from when Tilden's family was up here we took them to Seattle to show them all the cool stuff and then the real treat was taking them to beniHana's!!!! That is our favorite place to eat. but let me tell ya its not cheap!! haha. but Maddux got down with the chopsticks and used them for his whole dinner. What a lil freaking doll. I love my family.

Nesting......

2008-07-18T22:13:00.000-07:00

So I am 30 weeks today and feeling every bit of it. Ha ha. But I am totally in the nesting stage right now. Today Maddux and I painted the dresser for the nursery and Tilden and I are going to start painting it here in the next few weeks. Tilden's mom wanted to throw us a baby shower but unfortunatly we are not able to come home because of the military. (They are stupid) So I was pretty bummed out about that. but luckily I have met some amazing people here (lacey) and she has offered to throw me one. so i am also looking forward to that. I always stopped and looked at baby girl clothes (cuz they have so many cute ones out there) and wished I would have a girl. So the time has come and I can't wait. So for now I am just preparing and getting ready for this lil miracle to come.

On the road again....

2008-01-24T08:47:00.000-08:00

Alright so as of right now Tilden's det was called off. So he is no longer leaving. Which is great but bad at the same time because I am all ready to go to Idaho for a bit. But everything has worked out and my parents will arrive here tonight and tomorrow morning we head out for Blackfoot and will get there late that night. I have always loved going on road trips, they really clear my head. And this time will for sure. I am riding alone, Maddy is riding with my parents of course. He hasnt seen nana and papa since sept. I am still coming since it has been almost 8 months since I was last there. Time goes by so fast.

Maddux reached a milestone this week. Monday night we were practicing jumping with him and I asked him to do it on his own and he did. We are so proud of him and his accomplishments. He couldn't wait for the next day to show Jennifer his physical therapist what he could do. He is so excited also to be back in blackfoot and see some snow. We didn't get any snow this year. (so far). Im not too sure how excited I am of how cold I hear it is there. But non the less we are on our way tomorrow, so hope to see all the family and friends.

2008-01-13T21:48:00.001-08:00

This is Maddux right before Christmas. He is such a blessing to my life. He is definetly my world for sure. No matter what he is always with me. When Tilden has to leave every 6 months it seems for 4 months I know at least I have Maddy to keep my company and help the time pass. Maddux is now 3 years old and he is doing great. He is such a little 3 year old. We still go to physical therapy once a week and he loves it. He is getting better and better. He loves to play with Jennifer, his therapist. And he sleeps great when we get home. Maddux will have to be in therapy for a few years before he gains most the strength kids his age. But he sure is there mentally. He is so smart. He already counts to 20 in english and spanish. He is my little learner. You know what they say when one lacks in one area they over compensate in another.